Hi all
Pretty new here as we have recently got engaged and set a date of 6th June 2020 which would be 1 year on from the date we got engaged. Since then we have arranged and booked the church, venue, band, photographer as concious they get booked up really quick. My brother has now told me he is a best man for his friend on the exact same date and has been booked for over a year ?. I am at a loss for what to do. My and my fiancé have a special connection with that date and have planned things, paid deposits etc but at the same time he is my only brother. If we move the date we risk losing deposits etc and will have a date that means nothing but if we don't then I don't want me or my mum and dad to be sad on the day that he isn't there. I'm at a loss of what to do as my emotions are taking over.
If anyone has any advice on how to approach this and try to make a decision then that would be appreciated. Thank you