I asked my friend to be my only bridesmaid as I wanted to avoid choosing between family members. After she accepted she told me she is moving to the other end of the country 3 months prior to the wedding. When I have occasionally mentioned the wedding, she has said she'll 'try' to be there. I'm a bit worried about this, so asked if she would prefer to just be invited a a guest, both to make the move less stressful on her so she doesn't have that commitment, but also so I can be sure I won't have a key member dropping out at the last minute. Don't want to upset her, but I feel like if she can't commit to coming I need to know know, as wedding only 6 months away.
Was this the right thing to do?