So out of the blue today I received a message from a lady attending the wedding (h2b friends wife but I get along fairly well with her and she even came to my hen do) saying that she is now having childcare issues and she knows it’s short notice but could she possibly bring her 2 children.
i have children myself and I know childcare is hard to arrange but financially I’m broke. The balances have all been paid. I don’t want to say no but from a financial point of view I really don’t feel I will have much choice. How can I put this politely to her?