Sorry this is a moan related to WP but need to get it out to my Otters:
So my status as pro bridesmaid is aknowledged amongst everyone I know, and my workmate always says "I hope your friends remember what you did for them when it's your turn"
Well turns out not. I have asked my two cousins (25/27) who have never been BMs before, they are lovely and super excited. I'm close to them but I planned to also ask my two best friends (both of whom I've been BM for). The first one I 'sounded out' and she made it clear she didn't want to be my BM. The second one I had a drunken slip up with on Saturday night and when discussing my hen do I said "depends on what you lot decide" to which she responded "I'm not being your bridesmaid, I could have a baby or be pregnant by then."
Great. So it is now my turn and none of my friends give a damn. Super.
Nothing much anyone can do really but I spent all last night crying about it. I never expected tears this early in WP or that my friends would do that to me. I know they both will/may have babies by then, but I also have my two younger (single and childfree) cousins who could have done most of the organising if need be.