There is no doubt everyone wants their big day to be memorable. Whether you have a simple affair, an extravagant ceremony at a huge wedding venue or a simple reception party in your back garden, you'll want something that is special and unique to you.
But, as any of you who have started your wedding planning will know, this isn't always as easy as it seems.
It can be hard to introduce a theme without going over the top and unless you have your heart set on a ceremony with a very particular type of decorations – perhaps a 1920s-inspired occasion or a winter wonderland with fake snowflakes and plenty of white – it isn't always simple striking the right balance.
One person who certainly knows what she's talking about when it comes to making arrangements for the big day is domestic goddess Martha Stewart.
Writing for the Telegraph, she recently offered some simple tips on how you can make your wedding day individual without resorting to dressing up as Shrek characters or saying your vows as you bungee jump above a lake.
To get you well on your way, Stewart recommends first finding a particular style that appeals to you, whether it be a colour, a monogram or a type of food that reminds you of a special occasion with your husband-to-be.
"Sometimes the simplest ideas are the most effective. I love using glitter to add sparkle - from the flower girl's ballet slippers to gold stars hung on guests' seats," she writes.
If there isn't a particular restaurant, holiday or flower that makes you go all weak at the knees, Stewart thinks colour is the easiest way to personalise your wedding. After all, what are the chances someone else has chosen exactly the same combination as you?
"You should choose a colour that means something to you - I really like to get couples talking about their favourite places and memories and the colours they associate with them," she says.
Colour can unify everything and is an easy way to bring the flowers, decorations, invitations and placemats together. As Top Table Planner notes, you should think about the time of year you are walking down the aisle, as this may also help you to decide on a colour scheme.
Deep colours such as burgundy or dark green are ideal for winter ceremonies, while the wedding venue itself may also help you decide, as you could incorporate any strong tones in the carpet or walls into your own decorations.
If you want to add even more of a personal touch to the occasion, why not go beyond colour and get creative with the wedding cake? Stewart suggests buying a cake from a shop and then decorating it yourself, as this can then be tied in with your chosen theme.
Admittedly, there is a lot to think about, but if you take your time to establish a clear picture of exactly what you want in your head you'll be able to arrange a beautiful wedding where everything comes together and provides everyone with a day to remember.
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