AAAARRRRRRGGGGGHHHHHH!!!! - UPDATED WITH FLASH!!!

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• 16-Mar-2010 19:49

  AAAARRRRRRGGGGGHHHHHH!!!! - UPDATED WITH FLASH!!!

  Curly Panda Joined on 13-Oct-2009 Hereford Posts 1,073

  Contact Sorry girlies but i'm really cross!!! As you know i did some rather risque photos specially for OH and got a pretty nasty reaction form the one side of the family. Well I've just been back on FB and they're still slagging me off!!! The sad thing is this is my dad's side of the family who we dont really see TBH and I was hoping our wedding would be a good opportunity for everyonne to see and get on with eachother again. At this rate they wont be bloody coming, Im so cross. Sorry for the rant again

• 16-Mar-2010 19:56

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  Mrs C Joined on 18-Sep-2009 Posts 8,622	Contact Bloody FB! Don't know what to suggest to be honest other than *** slap the lot of them!!! That probably won't help though... Married since 19.O3.2O11 Dress for Sale: http://www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/show/104086706/jonathan-james-couture-wedding-dress-1012.html

• 16-Mar-2010 20:02

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  Curly Panda Joined on 13-Oct-2009 Hereford Posts 1,073	Contact the really annoying thing is that they think they're being subtle about it!!!! as if i wont undertand wht thy're on about!!! i hell im proud of doing my photos and showing my body off, ive hated myself for years and am finally beginning to love and accept myself for who i am (although i want bigger boobs lol), i need to slap something!!!

• 16-Mar-2010 20:08

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  Daisy82 Joined on 26-Sep-2009 Suffolk Posts 5,226	Contact thats infuriating!! why are some people like that! Let them get on with snidy remarks and just remember how much fun you had doing the shoot! Married 18th Sept 2010   April 2011. 11lb 7oz. 11 days overdue

• 16-Mar-2010 20:15

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  Mrs C Joined on 18-Sep-2009 Posts 8,622	Contact Rise above it... you looked fabulous and that's all that counts! Married since 19.O3.2O11 Dress for Sale: http://www.preloved.co.uk/adverts/show/104086706/jonathan-james-couture-wedding-dress-1012.html

• 16-Mar-2010 20:32

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  Curly Panda Joined on 13-Oct-2009 Hereford Posts 1,073	Contact oh i know but its driving me nuts. and i feel bad for my dad aswell as he doesnt exactky have the best of relationships his side of the family

• 16-Mar-2010 23:07

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  bethanw Joined on 27-Dec-2008 Posts 3,049	Contact I agree with Mrs C. Just rise above it. If they can see it's bothering you, they'll play up even more. I'd completely ignore it, that's the grown up and dignified thing to do, something which they clearly are not! We know you're fab! x Benjamin Thomas Anthony born at 38+5 - 15th March 2011 - 8lb 4oz

• 16-Mar-2010 23:20

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  Mrs Spink Joined on 14-Oct-2008 Sunny England! Posts 3,105	Contact As long as you and your OH think you look fab that's all that matters.  There is plenty of time before your wedding to uninvite people! OM since 8-9-10

• 16-Mar-2010 23:44

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  GeordieBarbie Joined on 26-Aug-2009 Reading, Berkshire Posts 6,513	Contact Best not to tell people about your photoshoot.  What happens in the photographers studio, stays in the photogrpahers studio...  22nd May 2010    |     8th July 2011 - 6lbs 12oz

• 17-Mar-2010 7:53

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  3d jewellery Joined on 06-Apr-2007 United Kingdom Posts 4,600	Contact I think I'd be crossing them off you guest list. Maybe use FB yourself to say how restricted you are on numbers and how hard it is to choose, but luckily some candidates are making it easier for you to cross them off.        enquiries@3djewellery.co.uk

• 17-Mar-2010 9:19

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  Mitzi50 Joined on 11-Nov-2008 Posts 2,292	Contact FB is the spawn of the devil! Thats a shame your family are reacting in that way though! Just ignore them! Married 25th June 2010

• 17-Mar-2010 9:38

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  Stazzle Joined on 20-Feb-2007 Dartford, Kent Posts 2,313	Contact How did everyone know about your photoshoot? I do agree with GeordieBarbie - if I did one it would be just between OH and I, and some of my very closest friends. It obviously doesn't excuse their behaviour but I do think things like that should perhaps not be shared with family etc.

• 17-Mar-2010 10:31

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  shoegal01 Joined on 28-Jan-2009 Posts 2,583 read my blog

  Contact How do they even know what the photos look like? You havnt put them on facebook have you?!! If you have then to be honest you have to expect people to have all kinds of different reactions to them.   If it were me i would have kept it to myself - i dont think i would want my and my OH's parents/family knowing i had given my OH some naughty photos of myself - bit wierd!       Married 10.10.10

• 17-Mar-2010 10:57

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  lynseys designs Joined on 11-Jun-2007 Glasgow Posts 13,051

  Contact Have they seen any of the pics? I did a photo session but I don't think like the ones you did and whilst I did tell my parents they have no idea what the pics were like. I may have shown them one pic that is just of my face but I wouldn't tell any other family members or show them anything. If you have said the pics are playboy type ones then people are unfortunately going to be judgemental. That doesn't excuse them slagging you off but some people are narrow minded and feel that their opinion is worthy of being shared. Rise above it and just never mention the pics again and they will soon get bored. If you feel that strongly then cull them or speak to them and say your life is your business and they either shut up or bugger off. xx    Hitcher Discount of 10% off available on jewellery and hair accessories. www.lynseysdesigns.co.uk     www.facebook.com/lynseysdesigns1

• 17-Mar-2010 14:20

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  Curly Panda Joined on 13-Oct-2009 Hereford Posts 1,073	Contact i have a very close realtionship with my mum and i tell her everything so she knows, all i pu as my status was "i did my FHM style shoot today and had a brilliant time" or words to that effect, the way they're going on its like ive become a porn star!!!