Just a quick note to send my thoughts to you on Mother's Day 
I used to find this one of the hardest days - a nationwide exercise in finger-pointing at me for not having the children I should have had and I dearly wanted and deserved. I recall my first mother's day after I lost my first 2 babies, when the restaurant we were in were handing out daffodils, but only to the mums. I wanted to jump up and demand mine, because I already knew then what I know now, that I was a mother; that I had become a mummy when I had started to dream of my first promised child, and that if things had been less heartbreaking those flowers would have been mine too.
I have a child now; my wonderful number 4. I had a card today, and it was beautiful. For those of you still waiting I wanted to send love and very best wishes that next Mother's Day you have the same. For those who have lost before/since having their child(ren), I also join you in thinking of those others who should have been here today.
My love to you all, mothers all of us in our cores x
Inspired by Sofie, Milo and all my angels, most recently Joe http://www.justgiving.com/JoeDonn/
Ideas and donations welcome x