I should also have said Finley/Finlay are the same name when it boils down to it, and Finn is certainly an abbreviation, as well as a name in its own right.
You're right though, boys names are HARD! We only managed to agree on 2 boy's names, and one of those still caused alot of debate before and after the birth!
Mind you, we only have one girl's name that we both agree on*, so it'll be interesting to see what happens if we have more than one girl in the future!
*I have plenty of names, H just can't see sense when it comes to them.

Will you be finding out the sex Hep?