What is your biggest wedding worry?

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• 09-Mar-2010 16:13

  What is your biggest wedding worry?

  Saracroft251 Joined on 25-Jun-2008 Portsmouth Posts 2,625 read my blog

  Contact I realise that I am a complete loon  when it comes to the wedding, I changed my dress no less than 3 times, I changed the theme countless times, I just want everything to be perfect, so much so that I have a list of "wedding worries" that I constantly stress about and try to work out ways to solve -is anyone else like this? If so what is your biggest worry? My Biggest worry is that one of my guests (girlfriend of a relative) is going to cause a fight, she is so rude and VERY LOUD, she often causes arguements when we go out as a family and I am concerned that she will kick off about the cost of drinks/the length of time the photos take/where she is seated etc. I have tried tallking to my relative about the gf but I just end up submitting as it causes so much upset to my aunt and uncle as they really want her to be there! No one will talk to her about her behaivour as they are all scared of her, even her other half won't stand up to her. My other worry is that I won't fit into my dress, but that is a whole other story stupid darn ticker never works!  Now it is just plain lying!!

• 09-Mar-2010 16:18

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  Mitzi50 Joined on 11-Nov-2008 Posts 2,292

  Contact Mines more of an after thing really but I dont think im photogenic, i dont mind having my photo taken but I never think I look good in photos so im worried I wont like any of my wedding pictures [:'(] We had some professional ones done last year and I refused to buy any of them as I thought I looked sh!te in them all, lets just hope it was a bad tog who didnt know how to photograph ladies from a flattering angle Married 25th June 2010

• 09-Mar-2010 16:20

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  Notts Lass Joined on 28-Jul-2009 Posts 4,134

  Contact Hehehehe, wedding fights! I hope she behaves or I give you full permisson to knock her out! I too am worried about fitting into my dress as it is very snug round the middle, it's been with the seamstress since Dec and I can't remember how it fits but i know I need to shift a few inches to make it comfy! Scared my zip will pop too!!! Also worried about crying too much as I am SOOOO over emotional and cry at anything! I don't want to look like a blotchy mess in the photos! I look AWFUL when I've been crying, no way of disguising it!!! Worried nobody will be up dancing even though we've requested people's favourite songs! Guess I need to stop worrying, get my ass to the gym more and blitz the next few weeks! :) x A 'respectable' married lady since 08/05/2010!

• 09-Mar-2010 16:22

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  Notts Lass Joined on 28-Jul-2009 Posts 4,134	Contact Oh god Moya...that's another one I'd not even thought of but am subconsciously worrying about! [:'(] A 'respectable' married lady since 08/05/2010!

• 09-Mar-2010 16:22

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  Broody_wife Joined on 06-Nov-2009 Posts 3,766	Contact I dont think i look good in photo's, don't think my hair will sit the way i want it, and quite possibly my makeup will be a mess. lol My other worry is that my oh is a bit of a joker and may pretend "he's not coming!" lol in which case i will kill him. xxx The hitcher formally known as Bailey_Wailey

• 09-Mar-2010 16:22

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  casinogirl Joined on 17-Apr-2009 Posts 499	Contact I worry that no one will turn up!!!

• 09-Mar-2010 16:22

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  Saracroft251 Joined on 25-Jun-2008 Portsmouth Posts 2,625 read my blog

  Contact Oh Moya, I am sure you are going to look fab in your pics, your smile will light up your photos    I must confess that that is also a big fear of mine, I  hate my nose and I always try to avoid profile shots as I look ridiculous in them. When we had our engagement shoot (2008) I thought I looked really fat in the images, now when I look back I realise I was being silly and I look fine. stupid darn ticker never works!  Now it is just plain lying!!

• 09-Mar-2010 16:24

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  KristaltippsHall Joined on 13-Oct-2009 Leicester Posts 567

  Contact My biggest worry is that people wont feel comfortable/wont enjoy themselves because they dont know anyone/dont get on, and I in turn wont enjoy my day cos I'll be stressing about looking after everyone - thats a big worry. I am also quite petrified at the thought that everyone is going to be looking at me and I'll be centre of attention - SCARY! Love is everything it's cracked up to be. That's why people are so cynical about it. It really is worth fighting for, being brave for, risking everything for.

• 09-Mar-2010 16:24

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  grace85 Joined on 19-Jan-2010 Swindon, Wiltshire Posts 2,399

  Contact I have to agree with Novice, mine is definately crying too much. My best friend got married in July and all of us girls we're blubbing messes but she was fine so i'm hoping i'm going to be so overly happy and excited that i don't cry! If H2B wells up then i've got no chance, i'm a sucker for a man that cries, lol!! And i suppose that my only other main worry is people not enjoying themselves! Step-Mum to M 23/01/2005

• 09-Mar-2010 16:29

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  Mitzi50 Joined on 11-Nov-2008 Posts 2,292	Contact Aww saracroft, thats very sweet of you   fanks! Im sure you will look beautiful too!! At least if there are some fights your tog should get some good action shots! ha ha! Married 25th June 2010

• 09-Mar-2010 16:35

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  Saracroft251 Joined on 25-Jun-2008 Portsmouth Posts 2,625 read my blog	Contact casinogirl: I worry that no one will turn up!!!     OMG casinogirl I hadn't even THOUGHT OF THAT  stupid darn ticker never works!  Now it is just plain lying!!

• 09-Mar-2010 16:37

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  Houdini Joined on 17-Mar-2009 Posts 7,219	Contact My biggest one is my photographer not turning up. And this is quite a real fear. Same goes for the DJ! I have actual dreams / nightmares about the wedding with last night being an example! With half hour to go, I wasn't ready, I had done my own hair and make up (not a god thing!), and I still had to get to the venue!

• 09-Mar-2010 16:40

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  drifter Joined on 20-Oct-2008 Posts 2,804	Contact I worry about no one turning up/ everyone leaving early that's it we are so disorganized that nothing is organized to worry about oh and I officaly look awful in all photos of me so not looking forward to those to much. (to convey just how good i am at looking bad an ex of mine once said "your really pretty but it all goes wrong in photos"

• 09-Mar-2010 17:30

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  Jumbly Girl Joined on 30-Mar-2009 Posts 995

  Contact I'm terrified that people won't have a good time.  Too many of my friends have got far too high expectations ('ooh JG it's going to be sooo good').  What if it's not?  What's if it's rubbish and they get bored?  What if me and Jumbly Boy are the only ones left at 9pm dancing on our own to our super-expensive band, eating our super-expensive cake and buffet?  Oh no.  It's going to be a disaster.

• 09-Mar-2010 17:36

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  sidsidney Joined on 16-Sep-2009 Birmingham Posts 1,051	Contact Jumbly Girl -  I know what you mean! All our mates seem to think we are having the wedding of the decade, and are looking forward to it more than we are!!!    Right now Im not worried about the day itself - Im too busy stressing over the stag do     Once thats done I'll probably start stressing about every but of the day ! lol