I cannot believe I'm about to post this as when I'm the person giving advice I think I would say exactly what I have a feeling you will say to me ...
My bridesmaids have asked me for a list of email addresses for the hens. Now for some reason unknown to me, this has actually caused me a little bit of stress. I have written 4 (FOUR) versions of the list. I've now got a final list who are the girls I know I'm going to stay in touch with now that I've moved abroad (all of whom have been invited to the wedding). My hen isn't until the end of Feb which is also the next time I'll be back in the UK. The thing is, I've excluded three people who had me on their hen dos (granted, these are now two to four years ago) and I'm a bit worried that there'll be hurt feelings or mumblings of "I invited her to mine, WTF?" Now, should I be worried about this? Like I say, the hen dos for these girls were at least two years ago and I only see them now at mutual friends' weddings or the occasional birthday.
If a friend came to me with this 'problem' (inverted commas as it's so trivial!) I think I would say that they should invite exactly who they want and people will understand this. Has anyone else had similar dilemmas?
6th April 2013 - my Danish wedding. Read all about it here!