WTF is this!?!?! Graphic content but I need help!!!

Noticed yesterday that I had a small sore patch between my front and back bits 2 days ago. I has now grown to about an inch long! No longer a patch but a lump!!!! So painful and can't sit down without being in pain!!! I could cry. In a meeting all day tomorrow miles from home so can't get to docs until at least Monday. It is not rock hard and it has a white dot at one end. So sore!!!!

Any ideas what this is? It has totally put a stop to or TTC efforts this month. I am pretty freaked out!!! Someone said ingrowing hair but I don't shave there!!!

spot?  when i read graphic content i was expecting apic, so thanks for not!  

In grown hair or spot of some kind. so not graphic lol

Squeeze it

I thought an absces too. There are things you can get called anal fissures which I wondered whetehr this mgiht be but with a head to it there is more a suggestion os ingrowing hair and the pain could eb from infection. And you don't need to shave to get ingrowing hairs as I found out to my mortification aged 12 when I found a lump on my bikini line!

Abcess or ingrowing hair.  I get quite a few lumps and have been told they are fine but they are fecking painful.

squeeze it

I'd say spot! Squeeze it, I couldn't not squeeze it!

Yeah go on squeeze it!

I too was a bit aprehensive there.  i thought there would be a photo.  Goes to show what good internet weirdies we are that we still came in to look! :)

I had a lump that appeared down there and it was SO sore.  i never shave in this place either.  i couldn't see it properly so i had to get H to have a look at it.  It was one Mahoosive spot and once i'd burst it (TMI ALERT - There was LOADS of gunk in it) i was fine.

Stab the head with a needle (sterilised first) and give it a good squeeze!

Ooh you have to squeeze it! How can you not?! Put a piece of cotton wool on it first thats been soaked in hot (not boiling!!) water, to encourage it to open up a bit first. 

Abcess?

But yes - Squeeze it!