as some people are letting their wedding planning get out of perspective.
please just remember why your getting married and to whom.
who cares if your great aunt mary cant make it
or if the flowers you want arnt in season
no one will notice if the ribbon doesnt match the chair covers
if your worried about the weather being bad, go abroad
if your worried about a the world cup or the olympics ruinign your wedding, change your date.
your making it hard work for yourselves for no reason.
dont let the wwedding become more than the marriage.
please all the people moaning about their mums outfit or their mil's input, spare a thought for the people who dont have their parents at their wedding, who would kill to hear their mum moan about the colours !
Please really think about these things. its a party. its about the marriage. every time your about to spend another £20 on somethign no one will notice how about you and h2b go out for a drink, or cinema because that will definatley be money well spent, no one will notice that you put diamontes inside the flowers, or you put tealights around your cake.
im probably going to get slated for this and i dont really mind, but i also think i may have put things into perspective for some.