AIBU?
My relationship with my sister(L) is hit and miss, she is 21/2 years younger than me and can be selfish where as I'd give anything to help family/friends. Our relationship gradually got better each time L returned from working abroad over a period of 4 years - so much so she came to live with us on 2 seperate occasions whilst house hunting. Since she has had her house, 2.5 years ago, the relationship has gone downhill. J my daughter, her only niece loves L and her little girl O to pieces.
L announced she had gotten engaged and set a date beginning of May to get married next year, has since announced on facebook that she had booked venue and also bought wedding dress and bridesmaid dresses - no discussions/text with me letting me know who she has choosen to be bridesmaid. Since july over something quite petty but a build up of issues we haven't really spoken. When I did see her for J's birthday and casually asked how the plans were going the reply was 'everything sorted apart from cake and rings' no other expantion and I felt she was achoring after me asking questions over everything (history with control of information).
L hasn't asked J to be flowergirl, I am mad and upset with L as more info is coming out about the wedding (from our parents) that L was going to ask but only probably out of duty and then the fallout happened and is waiting for me to build bridges and then she *may* ask J. I think my issue with this is that we may have had a falling out but that is between me and her not J.
Sorry for rambling just need to get it out