I was involved in a wedding earlier this year (as celebrant/vicar) and was given a funky clock because the bride knew I'd always wanted to have a wall of clocks in my house. I've got loads of jewellery so wouldn't have worn something else much but everytime I check the time i remember the day.
How about a picture or vase? Or if she's fond of cooking something special for the kitchen? If she likes entertaining maybe a cake stand?
8th October 2011, just so excited!