I can tell you what I take as a doula - perhaps some of it might be useful for a partner:
- copy of the NICE guidelines for Intrapartum Care
- a few copies of the mum's birth plan
- headphones
- dried fruit and other low-sugar snacks
- water/straw
- spare t-shirt
- essential oils
- deodorant, toothbrush, toothpaste
- hairbrush & hairband
- spare maternity pad
- camera, cash
- book/magazine
For homebirths
- torch
- thermometer
HypnoBirthing Practitioner, Birth Doula, Clinical Hypnotherapist & Trainee Breastfeeding Supporter in East Anglia & Essex - www.birthsense.co.uk