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So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

HappyGirl
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  • So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

    I can't recall Rosie's newborn days much. All I remember is being very happy and calm all the time and pinned to a chair breastfeeding 24/7 for er 18 months ha ha.

    Does the what to do with a baby all come flooding back when baby no. 2 arrives or is it all a blur of learning the hard way and reinventing the wheel again?

  • Re: So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

    • Buboo
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    • Joined on 05-Jun-2006
    • United Kingdom
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    It comes back very quickly! You will also know instinctively  how to manage 2 children! I found myself more calmer and chilled 2nd time round, I actually surprised myself!

  • Re: So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

    It does indeed come back, I remembered random things I'd totally forgotten about that newborn phase - sadly in my case mostly not good, more along the lines of 'oh f*ck, I've remembered how frigging hellish this is' Cry Embarrassed. But time passes faster 2nd time round which was definitely good, first time 6 months lasted forever and each day was a month, second time it flew and we were over that newborn bit thank goodness. Definitely more chilled though - been there, done that, although it's still a shock discovering that what worked with #1 doesn't work with #2 so you're back to the drawing board sometimes, but in terms of physically handling them, pah, it's so easy compared to those nervous changes of first born early days Laugh

  • Re: So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

    Instinctively know how to manage two children? Really? Fab!  

    I think last time Rosie BF so much I was in a hormone induced haze for a year at least, so I have no idea what to do for some reason, apart from swaying/rocking to calm a baby. That's all I remember Laugh

  • Re: So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

    I HOPE so!!!!

     

    Mommy to Harrison, 4 and a half today and 26+2 with no 2

  • Re: So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

    • dimity
    • Top 500 Contributor
    • Joined on 26-Apr-2003
    • United Kingdom
    • Posts 8,602

    Kind of. It was weeks before I remembered I was meant to be doing things like tummy time and nappy off time... and even now I've remembered, baby doesn't get them much.  But he seems fine.

    I keep forgetting that he's a whole different person from my first child.  I live in a constant state of surprise because he keeps doing things differently to L.  You just muddle through as always.

    You'll be fine!

  • Re: So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

    It does all come flooding back and you are so much more relaxed second time. My second baby took to b/f a lot easier and quicker than my first so that helped too

     

    Baby boy July 2007 11 days late  Baby girl February 2009 8 days late  Identical Baby girl Baby girl March 2012 born at 36+2

    4 Angel July 2006 10 weeks, Sept 2006 5 weeks, April 2011 8 weeks, June 2011 6 weeks

  • Re: So baby no. 2 - does it all come back?

    This is all good to hear - good post sugarmouse Hug

    H & I were only looking at pictures of DD last night at 5 months old and neither of us could remember it.  It was all just a daze.  Didn't help that she didn't sleep properly for nearly the first year.

    I am hoping we get a good sleeper this time.

     

    Mummy to two beautiful children,  DD born Nov 06 and DS born June 09

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