You poor thing, I can understand why you're fretting. I think it was
awfully unfair of the MW to leave this decision to you to be perfectly
honest. I think she ought to have been very forthright and came right
out with (a) it's very early and I am entirely unconcerned or (b) I
think we need to err on the side of caution and I'll make the referral now.
I'm
not entirely sure what I'd do in your shoes tbh. My instinct says that
if you're worried of course you should go to the emergency clinic.
However, as a mum of 2 young children I know that logisitcally that
sort of trip can be a nightmare. So, my advice I guess is to absolutely
go and get checked out, what I'd personally do is probably brush it
under the carpet, bury my head in the sand and think that the MW would
have known if anything was disastrously wrong and sit tight until the
20 week scan.
Gosh, that's not much help is it? Like I said though, shame on the MW for leaving you with this dilemma.