Sorry I forgot to say hello and welcome to the world of Hitched.
I think using Mocha, Cafe, Stone colours would all work as well.
For example this is my bm dress and the kilts
and the cravats are going to be silver because no blue cravat was nice.
Oh and it may only look like I have the perfect match but the kilts were originially green when I picked the bm dress colour so it's only by chance h2b changed his mind.
This is the stationery which was designed with the green kilt in mind so actually I don't have a matching colour scheme now because h2b messed it all up! lol.
What I'm trying to say is that colours don't really matter 100%.
If you have a look here http://www.flickr.com/photos/34298875@N07/sets/72157612497713732/ you'll see my flowergirl dress is ivory and my dress is gold. I just wasn't too bothered about having everything totally right but hopefully it won't look too bad in the pictures.