The more I go on, the more convinced I am that Sam will be my one and only, for no other reason that I simply have no desire to have any more, I just don't have that need. Luckily OH is of the same mind and maybe next year when my coil is due to be changed he may take up the contraceptive slack and make it permanent.
I seem to have acquired two more with my OH's girls who we have 50% of the time, which is fun for Sam, but he still likes his time alone also. He has a fantastic father figure with my OH, who treats Sam as he does his girls - Sam adores him and vice versa, which just confirms my decision that he was the right one for me to take a chance with again. We are v happy now. I have gone part time too, which means that Sam and I get some us time in the morning and afternoon, we are two weeks in and its amazing the difference.