Warning! Rant alert! ** ANOTHER UPDATE **

SEETHING DOESN'T EVEN BEGIN TO EXPRESS HOW I AM FEELING!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So, today was H's nephews 2nd birthday. nephews dad (lets call him Mr X) is a wife beating, oxegen wasting, bullying, effing C U Next Tuesday!!! So nephew had a party this afternoon, lots of excitable children as you can imagine. Party was going well, children loved the magician and then they sat down to eat. Mr X was starting to get up his a$$ about the mess the children were making on the floor, what else did he expect from a 2 year old party? impeccable table manners? I don't think so! So after the food was cleared up they were all dancing and playing, Mr X shouted at them to stop running around.

There was one little girl there, who was one of those nasty, spiteful little children, she was about 4/5 years old and for some reason Z decided she wanted to be friends with her. Z went and sat next to her and this girl pushed her off the seat and Z went flying. Luckily H was closer than I was because I would have probably pushed the girl off her chair (little b!tch) then Z got back up bless and sat next to her again. H turned around to get Z's cup that went flying and the horrid girl tipped her juice over Z and the floor. The mother just sat there like a wet effing weekend, I saw red! I was on the other side of the room and I went to stand up and get Z, H went to get a towel to clear up the wooden floor and Z bless her bent down to try and pick up the juice and put it back in the cup. Mr effing X walked behind Z picked her up by her shoulder and tossed her across the floor shouting about why did Z do that. Now I was livid! H is such a placid, shy man and I have never seen him as angry as he was today, I thought he was going to kill Mr X. It was a bit frightening really. I got Z, picked up her coat and left. I wasn't going to cause a scene in front of everyone but politly and very quietly told Mr X, that if he EVER even so much as dares to think about touching my daughter again I will snap his effing neck!

Z seems completely unphased by the whole thing and sang all the way home but I however, have come home shaking and in tears because I am so so angry! I have never felt rage like this before!Effing Pr!ck.

.... and breathe!

Sorry for the swearing, grammer and any offence caused but I am SO angry. I feel better for writing down though.

x

I don't know how you managed not to say anything to him! I would be livid like you are. Glad Z is ok and unfazed by it.

OMG! How dare he do that!

omg don't b;ame u- well controlled i say

I hope he apologies. Glad Z is ok and hope you and H are ok!

Pj xx

I think my initial reaction I would have picked him up and sent him flying after knocking some of his teeth out - my calm response would be to ring the police to put in a complaint for assault.

Pittabre:

OMG! How dare he do that!

Thats what I thought! Just because he is a C U Next Tuesday to his children, it doesn't give him any rights to treat anyone elses like it! H's older sister just called me to make sure we were okay. She said that everyone left after we did as Mr X started on his wife (H's other sister - He has 5)

Thanks for your comments ladies. x

as an aside - you can't call the girl a little b!tch even if she was vile! she may have had some issues you don't know about or it's learned behaviour from parents etc..

I do however understand your anger towards her. It is difficult when you see your child treated like that

As for him, you can call him what you want!

slightlymad:

I think my initial reaction I would have picked him up and sent him flying after knocking some of his teeth out - my calm response would be to ring the police to put in a complaint for assault.

 

Actually SM is spot on. You will have had dozens of witnesses as well.

slightlymad:

as an aside - you can't call the girl a little b!tch even if she was vile! she may have had some issues you don't know about or it's learned behaviour from parents etc..

I do however understand your anger towards her. It is difficult when you see your child treated like that

 

As for him, you can call him what you want!

Totally agree with this as well but think Jelly has just been pushed beyond by that man.

BTW not just copying you tonight SM!

slightlymad:

I think my initial reaction I would have picked him up and sent him flying after knocking some of his teeth out 

If it wasn't for the fact that I wanted to get to Z and see if she was okay I am sure I would have done this. H had the scruff of his neck and against the wall before I even got to Z.

H is playing PS3 now and we have both calmed down but we have agreed that we are not going to have anything to do with him anymore. We never really like him anyway, we just kept the peace for H's sister. I hope he doesn't do anything to her tonight. Grrr! It's such a worry!

I know and I do understand, probably more than you realise.

slightlymad:

as an aside - you can't call the girl a little b!tch even if she was vile!

I agree, I didn't really mean to call her that, I was just ranting. Even though she was horrid. Its not her fault her mother is a down and out!

anyway now you have ranted and got it out your system, have you worn any of those fab maternity clothes yet?

I really need to get on and send you and vicstix my number for my duties!