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    • Edie
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    H's Dad called this morning to see if I was ok. I'd cried on the phone to his mum last night (unintentionally) and was quite harsh about H which I'm not normally. FiL asked if I was ok, and said for what its worth they think H has done the wrong thing. That he was really stupid for going, even more stupid for going even though he'd missed the flight, and they had told him so - and will continue to do so.

    H called this evening. He seemed completely surprised that I was still anoyed with him! He called to say good night to the boys, but it was an hour past their bedtime (last I heard they didn't have a time difference in Ireland!), I told him he couldn't speak to the boys, he asked if I'd had a nice day, how i was feeling. I was rather curt with him, and then just said hope you're having a good time.

    He said that it wasn't about having a good time....??!! What the F is it about then? Why did he go if he didn't want to have a good time?? Am I missing something??

    Childishly I hung up in the end. He started having a go about stuff and I just said see you when you get back, and put the phone down.

    On a more positive note though, my cold seems marginally better, and I've had a lovely afternoon with Mum and the boys at the Cotswold Wildlife Park! x

    This isn't flying, its falling - with style

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    I hope things are better for you tonight. I wasn't online yesterday so didn't get to see this. Glad your ILs are on your 'side' and yeay for CWP - it's great there isn't it?

    Much love to you, hope things start to pick up soon Hug

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    I must have missed this last night.  Poor you.  Is he back now? 

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    Hug I hope things start to look brighter lovely and your H is suitably apologetic when he gets back.

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    I must have missed it to. I hope he got back safely and things get better. x

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    • Edie
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    Thanks all. He got back and eventually did say sorry. That's great but it's not giving me back my summer. I told him I'd done nothing this summer apart from be the babysitter while he enjoyed himself. I know that's extreme but it's how I feel. He said he'd made a mistake in going but I said even given the chance to turn around and come home when he missed the flight, he spent more money and carried on. I've told him I don't want him to come to Italy this weekend, I want him to stay at home and look after J. I go back to work next week and I've had a lovely year with my boys, but not as a family x

    This isn't flying, its falling - with style

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    Oh Edie x

    Inspired by Sofie, Milo and all my angels, most recently Joe http://www.justgiving.com/JoeDonn/

    Ideas and donations welcome x

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    So sorry Edie Hug

    I wish he could understand that all you wanted was more time as a family and support as parents rather than to be a single parent whilst he continues his life as was.

    I hope you have a lovely time in Italy and things start to improve when you come home. What did he say about not going to Italy?

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    Oh Edie Hug

    Have a lovely time in Italy - I really hope it gives you chance to think and relax and have some 'you' time.

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    Hug

    Name changed from angeldust

    Baby girl I - April 2007

    Baby boy J - June 2010

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