"A difficult pregnancy" (v. sens) - Sausage is fine, don't worry

I don't know what to say but just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you

I can't even begin to imagine what you have and are still going through. I'm so glad that you can post here when you need to get it out, that's what we're here for, even if all we can offer is an ear and some virtual hand holding.

Sending all the stay strong vibes I can muster to you and Sausage

Madonna: I dont know what to say, but you have been through so much and It is normal to feel the way you feel, you are so brave in a lot of ways, i really wish you a really healthy 3rd trimester and we are here for you

xx

Moz

you keep battling and remain the articulate, caring and amazing woman and mother that you are. fortune favours the brave...

Another one who wants to send you a hugly inadeqaute

I can't begin to understand how you feel but am glad you feel you can write it all down here - and you know we are all here whenever you need to let it all out.

xxx

If I could take just one hour for you I would.

You don't know what makes you special. People tell you it often and how you are an inspiration, especially here and it's hard to define exactly why. It's not the losses you've endured that make you a wonderful person although of course they are a part of you. It's the way you reach out your hand to those that need it. You walk side by side with those that need you and it gives us strength to carry on walking.

You provide inspiration in that there is always hope. Yes there is fear, and absolute terror, but always there is hope.

You let us know it's ok to feel crap sometimes, and scared of what is going on. You don't ever seem to judge. You are patient, loving and so amazingly kind.

If there was ever anyone I wanted to be able to take the pain away from, it is you. You do not know how much of my pain you have eased.

Your friendship is like a hug, your support and kindness, a lovely warm blanket.

I can't promise that it will all be fine, unfortunately. But I can tell you, I will always be here to listen, handhold, hug, cry, celebrate, share, laugh, and smile with you xx

I'm so pleased Sausage is looking good and I am completely in awe of how strong you have been through all your struggles and I love the way you right things so elequently (I think that's the right word).  We are all here for you any time you need to get things out x

Always thinking about you and willing you and Sausage on Madonna.

Here's to that good strong cry and finally being rid of the backing track. I know nothing can ease the pain of your numerous losses, and your babies will be with you one way or another forever, but I am sending all the vibes that I can for you, and hope that the collective power of Hitched vibes will support you in whatever you need from us all.

Sending you all my love, and offering any support that I can.

A beautifully written and heart-rending account as always. You inspire me every day.

Rachel xx

I too have no words. Words aren't enough. I think of you - in a non-stalkerish way! - alot, hoping and praying for you, Mr M and S. Inadequate coming your way. If you are ever at a loose end with S, give me a shout, would love to occupy your mind for a wee bit.

Lots of love xxx

Please excuse the typing I am on my phone. I just want to give you a massive hug! I think about you a lot how supportive you are and Itoo prayer for your completed family. So much of what you have said rings such a bell with me. I'm now 14 weeks and too scared to tell my family in case something goes wrong again (I don't mean having a prem-I can cope with that!) I have no wise words for you.....I wish I did you always seem to have them for me. Take each day as it comes I hope the extra assessment starting next week can be some reassurance for you. I wish I had a magic wand that I could use and transport you to your delivery date (giving you time for S birthday too!)

Oh gosh M, I can't even begin to imagine what you must be going through but just want to send you an inadequate hug.

So so pleased that Sausage is growing well. I know it's only words but I think you're inspirational in how you've dealt with everything so far.

We're here whenever you need us. x

Lots more inadequate hugs heading your way from here

Firstly, glad to hear Sausage is doing well, and that your consultant continues to be fabulous. A big to that man (or lady?) for looking after you so well. I hope that you manage to take even a tiny little bit of reassurance from the fact that your care is so good and they will look after you to the best of their capabilities.

As so many others have said, you truly are an inspiration. The fact that you manage to keep on going through such tough times is just amazing, and that you continue to give support to others here whilst doing so is mindblowing.

Lots of love x

Madonna, I just wish there was something I could do to make this a little bit easier for you. You've put something so difficult into words so amazingly well as usual and have brought tears to my eyes, have a massive hug and know that we are there with you every step of the way and I can't wait for a BA which will be the most wonderful I have ever read x

There are a small group of woman on here that I have the upmost admiration for and you fall into that group, there are just no words that I feel would do justice so im sending you hugs by the bucket full.

Im glad sausage is growing beautifully