Thanks for your replies.
E's nursery is very small, just enough room for his furniture, definately not enough room for another cot.
We do have a double spare room, but can't use this as have to keep it available for mum, its sort of become 'Grandma's room' !
If we do make our bedroom bigger, it should be quite a bit bigger so will have plenty of space for a cot. We will have to extend again though to put kids rooms upstairs. What a faff. We don't want to move though. We could move to the farmhouse, but its a working farmhouse and I don't like the idea of everyone in and out when I have a newborn baby to look after, I remember spending most of the first few weeks with my boobs out trying to get E to feed!