What is your biggest wedding worry?

sidsidney:

Right now Im not worried about the day itself - Im too busy stressing over the stag do     Once thats done I'll probably start stressing about every but of the day ! lol

 

JAYSUS, I hadn't thought of that one either!!!  (runs in to a corner and hibernates till wedding day) 

Moya50:

Mines more of an after thing really but I dont think im photogenic, i dont mind having my photo taken but I never think I look good in photos so im worried I wont like any of my wedding pictures [:'(]

 

Same here. I look awful in photos.

I also worry that future stepdaughter is going to be sitting with a face like a slapped backside for most of the day!

Jumbly Girl:

Too many of my friends have got far too high expectations ('ooh JG it's going to be sooo good'). 

I know what you mean!

Ok, here are my worries.... and I have 17 months to go so plenty of time to find more things to worry about!!

1. Out of my best friends..... one had a very low key wedding, one got married and only had an evening reception, one is getting married in Vegas with just her H2B and another is thinking of getting married in a few years but have a small budget, so............. they think mine is going to be some big extravagant affair and keep reminding me about how much it is costing (something that really annoys me as it is nothing to do with anyone else about how much anything costs!) and saying how big and fab it is going to be. I keep worrying that what if they dont think it is 'big, extravagant and fabbie' and think I have spent a fortune for it to turn into a non existant party..... I know my friends would never think bad of me, I just worry way too much!

2. When I get a little bit stressed I get cold sores,.... worried I will walk down the aisle with a HUGE cornflake on my lip!

3. We are getting married at 12 o'clock!! It was either that for 4 and we didnt want it so late. 6 bridesmaids and me to get ready in one room!!! Aghhhhhhhhhhhhh!

4. What if everyone leaves early?! We are having fireworks at 10, I worry that people will see this as a signal of the end of the night and do a runner!!!

NoviceBride!:

Also worried about crying too much as I am SOOOO over emotional and cry at anything! I don't want to look like a blotchy mess in the photos! I look AWFUL when I've been crying, no way of disguising it!!!

 

OMG I hadn't thought of this one. But I too look awful when crying!

Zippy27:

NoviceBride!:

Also worried about crying too much as I am SOOOO over emotional and cry at anything! I don't want to look like a blotchy mess in the photos! I look AWFUL when I've been crying, no way of disguising it!!!

 

 

 

OMG I hadn't thought of this one. But I too look awful when crying!

 

 

 

 

 

 

When I cry I usually get big white lines down my makeup.... how can I have piccies taken with a face like that!!!!

This thread is creating us to have more worries than before!

NoviceBride!:

Worried nobody will be up dancing even though we've requested people's favourite songs!

 

H2B is also worried about this!

I worry about the dancing - particularly as h2b has demanded complete control on it and my friends might not like his stuff - and we've got several rooms so I'm worried people will disappear into that.

Worried about tog and vlog that I'll look fat and ugly

That I'll cry and look a complete mess

That everyone'll be disappointed as a couple of my mates have had really extravagant do's (and after all I've already had the WHAT NO FREE BAR comment) :(

tbh at the minute I'm not looking forward to the day at all. I can't wait to be his wife, and I'm really looking forward to the honeymoon...but :(

I have so many worried i don't know where to start!

First of all is the obvious rain one- but there's nothing i can do

Second is me looking like an idiot in my photos as i'm taller than OH

I'm worried my mum's side of the family won't turn up (My mum passed away and since then the family has refused to speak to us)

....now i know some of you are gonna laugh or be disgusted at my next one... sorry if TMI!
but when i get nervous i sometimes get an upset stomach quite quickly!
upset stomach + big white dress+ not knowing where the nearest loos are+ having to take your BMS to help you to the loo in you dress = MY WORST NIGHTMARE!

meggles24:

now i know some of you are gonna laugh or be disgusted at my next one... sorry if TMI!
but when i get nervous i sometimes get an upset stomach quite quickly!
upset stomach + big white dress+ not knowing where the nearest loos are+ having to take your BMS to help you to the loo in you dress = MY WORST NIGHTMARE!

I shouldnt laugh but made me giggle!

It's early days in planning for me but I already have worries about the day!

No one turning up.

The food being awful.

Even worse, I am clumsy as hell. Would be just like me to spill food and/or red wine all down myself. Classy

MrsRToBe:

Even worse, I am clumsy as hell. Would be just like me to spill food and/or red wine all down myself. Classy

My mum is mega clumsy and once spilt red wine down the back of her best friends daughters wedding dress. Luckily only on the bottom of the train and well into the night..... I am not allowing her red on my day, strictly white only for her!

My OH keeps saying he is going to get me a 'wedding bib'. What an attractive concept that is.

I have a few worries, but I am a worrier:

• No one dancing- just an empty dancefloor..
• No getting any pictures outside. I am a January wedding and although I except I am going to freeze I would really like some pictures outside and have a limited sunlight period so hope it doesnt chuck down all the way through!
• Everything being set up the way I want it. I am a control freak and a bit of a party planner by nature and would ideally have done this myself! I also worry about it not looking as good all together as I imagine..
• Too much snow so people cant make the venue, but a little covering would be pretty
• People being overly cold

Actually, loads of things- I cant go on, I think i'll start calling it off!!

this thread is massively stressing me out! i've got many fears, most already mentioned

us both bursting into tears
nobody dancing
my makeup looking all cakey and overdone
my fat stupid double chin looking absolutely rubbish in the pictures
everything running really late and not sitting down to eat till like 9pm!
people not getting along - ie our extended families meeting for the first time, aaah.

ugh should have just gone down to the registry office!!!! xx

I haven't really got many worried TBH.

The one thing I do keep thinking about is when I see what the guests are wearing.  There's always 1 or 2 at a wedding when I wonder what made them wear that particular outfit.  I have visions of me walking down the aisle and clocking someone and thinking "you wore THAT to MY wedding????" 

I'm the most organised person and  like things to be done properly but TBH - i'm so laid back over the wedding it's untrue!  And our wedding co-ordinator is just like me and so fab that I don't have any worries