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    who walks down the aisle first the bride and brides father or the bridesmaids ?

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    All but one of the weddings I've ever been to, the bride came first then the bridesmaids, however my best friend fought tooth and nail with almost everyone for her BM's to go first, and it was lovely.  I think it should be that way cos then people go "ahhhhhh dont they look pretty""WOW - she looks amazing"

    And at the end of the day, were meant to be the centre of attention right?

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    I've been to weddings with both.  I think it is just down to preference really.  Is bridesmaids first the more american way of doing it?  It's up to you really.

    I went first when I got married.

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    I've been to weddings with both, BMs first is more american but no reason why you can't have it.

    I prefer it myself as I think it's a bigger build up to you coming in, I went to a wedding last weekend and the bride was halfway down the aisle before anyone realised!

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    I think its more common for the bride to go first as all eyes will be on you.  But I suppose it can be either way, wchihever you prefer yourself x

     

     

     

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    My bridesmaids are going first- I want them to all have their 'moment' too.

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    i like the idea of bridesmaids going down first too. like Laura said, gives them their moment before all eyes on the bride! also, think it'll be nice to have a sec just with your dad, without BMs!

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    I'm having the bridesmaids go 1st. When my mum got married a few years ago she went 1st & we followed her but we (the bridesmaids) were stood up for quite awhile & all anyone could have seen was our backs as we must have obscured everyones view of the bride & groom.

    I aslo want my flowergirls to throw petals for us to walk on (cheesy but I've always wanted to do it!)

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    I aslo want my flowergirls to throw petals for us to walk on (cheesy but I've always wanted to do it!)

     

     

    Me too!! I want the flowergirl to go first, then 2 smaller bms then cbm then meeee!!!! Im making paper snowflakes to be scattered with the petals. Maybe cheesy but I dont care!!!

    I have a question too - Im having my 2 yr old nephew as ringbearer. Does he walk down with the bms or wait with the groomsmen???

     

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    • Chez2k
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    I will be having bridesmaids first. Then me and my dad. I

    I was maid of honours at my friends 18 months ago and we did it that way as well.

     

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    kj82:
    Im having my 2 yr old nephew as ringbearer. Does he walk down with the bms or wait with the groomsmen???

     

    I too am having a ring bearer i am going to have him walking down after the bms infront of me.  I am not having my actual rings tied on his pillow though we are getting some cheap ones o go on his pillow in case he takes them off, loses the pillow, runs out of the room, refuses to walk down etc etc

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    Probably me first as i'm having "here comes the bride" so would look odd if i didn't come in first.

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    At many COE weddings, the vicar walks in front of the bride and her father, almost completely blocking the view of her, with her following bridesmaids. Most civil ceremonies I've done, it's been done both ways, the registrars aren't bothered. If you are marrying in a church, the officiant will tell you how they do it. I had an American bride a few years ago, who insisted on doing it the way she'd always dreamed of, and the vicar wasn't very happy about it.

    Being American, I will stick up a bit for the American way, because it does showcase the bride more. The bridesmaids do enter first, one at a time, one after the other, but each waits until the one before reaches the front, and they stand to the left side in support of the bride, and mirroring the groomsmen on the opposite side. Then if there are flowergirls, this is when they enter.  Once all bridemaids have entered, usually the music either changes for the Bride, or it gets louder, and that's when everyone stands. Up til the bride enters, everyone is sitting. 

     

     

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    I want bridesmaids then me, this will all depend on whether at my venue you can see me at the top stood their waiting to walk! If i'm hidden then bridesmaids first.  I'm going to struggle with my little bridesmaid as she is 4 and my only little one and she doesn't really know my big bridesmaids (met them a couple of times and know their names! but that's about it!).  If she doesn't want to walk alone, her dad, the usher/brother will walk her down.  I don't mind as long as she doesn't run off!

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    I'll be having the BMs go first.  This is an American thing but I think it makes good sense.  Lets the BMs get noticed and builds anticipation for the bride.

    If the bride comes first I don't think anybody bothers looking at the BMs after that....lol

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