thanks everyone. I am sorry for posting and running last night but the most amazing amount of tiredness and must do jobs came over me.
I wasn't expecting to be up so soon this morning but my little friend had done a poonami at 6.30 and came to tell us.
Mr S is now concerned that I'm going to be persuading them to admit me for a rest from Eleanor for 24 hours 
JB will let you know how it's going and if I can make lunch I will.