the invitations, because he's a designer and the men's suits are all I asked him for, but I've asked him for his opinion on things, when I've narrowed them down. Also, as the suits show no sign of happenning I've put together a document for him with prices and pictures, hoping that'll spur him into action. The annoying thing is that he doesn't want responsibility for anything but then complains when I choose something he doesn't like - take, for example the minimoon - we want to go to a nottingham resto at the end of it, so I'd done loads of research, around somewhere to stay before and decided that a center parcs exec lodge would be really nice. His response (sorry CP devotees in advance) "I don't want to go to Butlins on honeymoon".