I sent the opening post and I'm surprised at the apparent advertising claims!!!
I have no association with any wedding business at all and thought that the benefit of these forums was that you could get the views of other people in the same siutation. I could have listed a whole ream of online shops but that was the one someone mentioned to me so I wanted to get some real reviews. I didn't recommend them or suggest anyone else should use them, I was genuinely interested in whether anyone had used them.
In general the posts have been really helpful so thanks!!