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Our year of breastfeeding.

Natalie
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  • Our year of breastfeeding.

    I really wanted to post as a means of support and encouragement to those considering breastfeeding and to those who are starting out. Obviously there are many many successful breastfeeders on here but there are also frequent posts asking for help from people having difficulties so I wanted to give brief but a positive report on our experience.

    S turned 1 yesterday, we exclusively breastfed until she was weaned at 6 months and are now down to 3 feeds, morning, mid afternoon and bedtime feeds. She has only recently dropped her mid-morning and nightfeed so I think she can be officially classed as a milk monster!!

    I'm very aware of how much of a challenge establising breastfeeding can be and even more so to keep going as your baby grows and develops so I am so proud and thankful that we have managed to get to this stage. She has her 3 feeds from  me when i am not at work and as bottles of EBM when she is at nursery, so far expressing at work and not been an issue.

    I am also lucky that it hasn't been too difficult for us. When she was first born, she seemed to latch on very quickly but would drop off within a few sucks so I was squeezing colostrum/milk out by hand and letting this drop into her mouth. Within 24-48hours S really figured out what to do. It was agony for maybe 3-5days but I managed to use creams to stop my nipples getting cracked. I then suffered quite badly with engourgement but again found ways to overcome this with advice from 2 breastfeeding counsellors and advice from Hitched too. So i'd say within 2 weeks it became comfortable, easy and very natural.

    S really thrived, she never lost any weight and quickly jumped from the 50th to the 75th then 91st centile!  I honestly can't remember her suffering with even a sniffle until she started nursery at 9months of age. She did develped eczema at 2 months but she was always at high risk as I have eczema, hayfever, asthma and food allergies and there are allergies on my husbands side to. It was initially quite bad, but with intense use of creams, it because managable to the point that my GP kept trying to stop prescribing creams as he believed she had grown out of it. Maybe she had but we kept using the creams until we weaned then down from 8/9 months and haven't seen so much as a hint of a dry patch. I do believe her eczema would have been much worse and she may still be suffering badly now if we hadn't breastfed.

    As well as the many many health benefits for my daughter from being breatfed in her first year of life, breastfeeding for 12months + now gives me additional health benefits such as a lower risk of developing ovarian and endometrial cancer. My husband does like to remind me that we didn't benefit from saving money by not buying formula as I spent all the potential savings on pretty bras and breastfeeding tops!!!!!!

    It has been such a pleasure and a joy to breastfeed my daughter, I have loved every second of our experience, even now when she pulls my hair and tries to poke me in the eye when she feeds!! I have made a conscious effort to breatfeed in public as much as possible as I  believe that much the negativity surrounding breastfeeding is due to people not having much experience of actually seeing mums and babies doing it. I was shocked in my NCT classes that 8 out 0f 14 of the parents had never seen a woman breastfeeding. I am lucky that noone has ever dared challenged me in public, although there have been times when I would have preffered this to dirty looks and under their breath muttering as I would have liked the chance to pass on some education.

    Now that she has started nursery, she does seem to catch colds quite often, and the first thing that happens with a cold or when she is teething is that she completely goes off her food. She also isn't great at drinking water, so being able to go back to feeding on demand when she's been poorly has avoided me from ever having to become concerned about dehydration and has also provided her with extra comfort when she has needed it most

    It saddens me that there is such a profound lack of community support to mothers wishing to breastfeed but i am lucky that my job allows me to provide education and promote breatfeeding  as a professional as well as a mother.

    I really hope this post can help a few people who are trying to decide what the best method of feeding is for them or anyone already breastfeeding and perhaps having difficulties.

    Sydney Georgina Baby girl, 7lb 9oz, November 2008.

    Taylor Michael Baby boy, 8lb 2oz, August 2011.

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    • LoulaM
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    I think that's brilliant, well done you and your boobs!  I BFed Finlay for about 8 months and really hope to BF this next baby for much longer than that.  Your post is inspirational in that way!

    I particularly smiled at this bit:

    Now that she has started nursery, she does seem to catch colds quite often, and the first thing that happens with a cold or when she is teething is that she completely goes off her food. She also isn't great at drinking water, so being able to go back to feeding on demand when she's been poorly has avoided me from ever having to become concerned about dehydration and has also provided her with extra comfort when she has needed it most.

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    • Noo
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    Lovely post RT, well done & Happy Birthday for yesterday to Sydney.

    You are a real inspiration to me as you know the woes that BF presented me and if and when baby2 comes along it's great to have some positve stories to encourage me.

    Two beautiful girls 

    J - Sept 2007 & S - Nov 2010

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    • Dove
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    Well done!

    I'm 11 weeks into bf my 2nd child. We had a few obstacles to over come such as 4 1/2 in scbu and one nurse who wanted me to offer ff instead of staying in the hospital to feed on demand. I have my first goal of reaching 4 months exclusively bf, I hope to make it to 6 months but I'm doing small goals at a time. I fed my first exclusively for 4 months before mix feeding and eventually stopped bf altogether at 10  months. I admire anyone who can bf publicly, I have never done it but this is another goal I hope to achieve soon.

    I think the education of bf needs improving. I saw some poor advice in hospital. One lady wanted to mix feed from the beginning and was expressing once a day and mostly gave ff, nobody explained the supply and demand and establishing her supply, needless to say baby was fully ff by the time he left scbu. Another was a young teenager who expressed an interest in bf, baby was in scbu - I got the impression that the staff had her ear marked as someone who wouldn't manage it, maybe because of her young age, she wasn't told to express in the early days, they would put the screens around her and leave her to latch herself, then pop their heads around when she hadn't managed it and then say 'try tomorrow, I'll get a bottle'. I have learnt alot from hitched and the majority of my knowledge is from here, I was lucky that both my babies latched well from the beginning but I have still had moments of self doubt.

    I am a rarity amongst our friends and they regularly ask if I am 'still doing that' before giving their opinions on my feeding methods. I would never comment on someone's choice of feeding and feel I have to defend my choice when friends make negative comments to me. One person from my antenatal group called another bf an 'airy fairy breastfeeder' to me and then apologised and back tracked when she remembered that I did the same. Maybe I am turning in to an airy fairy treehugger as I also, thanks to hitched, own a mooncup and a sling and have dabbled with cloth nappies!!!Laugh

    Baby girl born Jan 06 36+4 6lb 13oz

    Baby boyborn Aug 09 34+6 2lb 11 1/2 oz (IUGR)

  • Re: Our year of breastfeeding.

    yay, well done for getting to a year Cheers

  • Re: Our year of breastfeeding.

    Lovely post & update RT, and Happy Birthday Sydney.

    It's great to hear these positive stories.  One year down, only another 7 to go Wink

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    What a fantastic post - it brought a year to my eye! Well done on your year of BFing and sharing your story and may it keep on being as rewarding for both of you into the next year or more.

    I love reading positive BF stories and also about your fearless public BFing - you're right in that so many women just don't see other women BFing in public. I recall when I was pregnant with R a friend - then BFing a two year old- pulled up her top and gave me a demo. I think I was a bit surprised and slightly embarrassed, but was grateful to her for doing that and showing me how as such. I think she also inspired me unconsciously to venture into 'extended' feeding and also to tandem feed.

    I found in the second year that BFing really helped to ground R when she was overtired or overstimulated and so it became so much more than being about a food source or even the physical contact. It is a great cure-all for an upset toddler who needs 'fixing'!

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    what a lovely post.  thank you for sharing.  it is great to see a positive bf post.  There's a bottle of champagne in my fridge for when I reach 6 months Stick out tongue

    Happy Birthday Sydney Cake

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    Fantastic post ! I never understood the joy breast feeding gave until i had my son x

    Well done you on 1 year, i am only 5 weeks away myself!

    Happy birthday sydney x

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    Oh yay, Happy belated birthday to Sydney

    Lovely post Smile

    I had a mind once, now I have small children.

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    Happy Birthday Sydney Cake

    I'll be joining you in the 1 year BFing club in 12 days time Big Smile 

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    What a lovely, positive and inspirational post.

    I am nearly 22 weeks pregnant and fully intend to breastfeed despite quite a lot of resistance from most of our families, although luckily I have a very supportive husband.  I hope that I can make it to a year and it's nice to read that other people have made it this far.

    Happy birthday to Sydney Smile

    Liam Anthony Pritchard born 31/03/10

    44 hours of labour
    Induction 35 hours after waters breaking.
    Liam born by ventouse

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    A lovely post. Happy birthday Sydney and congratulations Redtulip.

    I also value the power and comfort of breastfeeding through the early nursery illnesses.

    At 19 months I value the calming effect on an agitated toddler, and the pick-me-up effect on a tired one.

     

    Herts/Beds sling agent for www.petitpoppet.co.uk E-mail: corinne@petitpoppet.co.uk
    Harpenden BF support group and sling library
    Babycalm Harpenden, St Albans & Chesham

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    Fab report hun, and well done you! Kiss

    We are still breastfeeding too, and still content doing it.

    How cool that both our babies, born on the same day, are still both breastfed and still at the same times of day. They should have been twins LOL! Smile

     

    Harry Thomas | 28/02/05 | 41+0 | 6lb 12.5oz | spontanteous 12-hour labour

    Alexander Edward | 11/11/08 | 41+0 | 6lb 3oz | spontaneous 4-hour labour

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