Sunnyday - i only used the thermometer for about 3 days when it was still new and a novelty, i was hoping to start temping as soon as AF had arrived.
J12ess - the wonky cycle thing might be ok, i suppose it would be a whole year since i've been pill free so this could be it?
Hecate - I was just thinking that it could have been illness that had mucked me up, i do have some opks, will try one when i get home from work.
kelly - i'd be happy for it to be because AF is due, i just want this stupid cycle over and done with.
Thanks for all your replies ladies.