I had a non-hormonal coil fitted in December last year, 3 months after having F. I remember at the fitting, the Dr had problems getting the depth measurement, had several goes, and commented that it was short, I got an infection after the fitting and was given antibiotics which cleared it up. After that I suffered from pain and cramps pretty much all the time, but was told it was normal and just needed to settle. I had a normal-ish period in January (my first post birth) but then had nothing until the end of March, I took a pg test fairly early on when my period didn't turn up, which was negative, but didn't think any more of it as I was still breastfeeding and it would only have been my second AF post birth anyway. However over the next few months I experienced various 'symptons' that made me worry I could be pregnant. I had a very light bleed, but tested afterwards and got a couple of feint positives. I left it a week, tested again, got a negative and a few days later, had a very heavy and painful period. I was still experiencing pain and cramps after this finished so went back to the clinic to explain and get checked out. The Dr wasn't interested in the fact I may have had a positive preg test, all she wanted to know was that I'd since had a negative and a period. She checked my coil and said it seemed fine and that the pains weren't an issue, despite me saying they were bad anough to make me feel sick. She suggested perhaps I didn't suit the coil but made no suggestions as to what to do. Between then and now I've had very short cycles, the latest being 21 days, with very heavy periods lasting between a week and a fortnight which means I sometimes only have a week or two of not bleeding a month. Because the bleeding is so heavy, I feel very tired and wobbly, have a lot of cramps/pain and actually have issues managing the bleeding, generally have several embarrassing leaks each time. I'm also stills getting pains/cramps and spotting mid cycle too.
I'm sick of it, but don't know if I'm just being wussy as was told periods could be heavier. I'm reluctant to use anything hormonal as have never got on with anything in the past, yet don't trust us to be careful enough to rely on barrier methods (that's how we got F!) or cyclical charting type things. I'd have it out, but don't want to risk another unplanned pregnancy.
Does my experience of the coil sound normal? Am I just a wimp?
WWYD?
I had a mind once, now I have small children.