Hi
Hog roast sounds very good, we saw one on holiday and it looked great and smelled lovely.
As an evening guest i would assume there would be a cold buffett. I have some friends who are muslim and they will be at our reception. We have arranged for a veggie option or you could always see if you venue would provide some halal food for them. My friends dont even eat percy pigs sweets, so if it was me i would tell the what your planning and maybe arrange seating away from it. If they know its there they dont have to see or eat it.
As an evening guest i would assume there would be a buffett but nothing more than that
Kat
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