Hi all well we have finally had it confirmed that my mum has MND.
Her Doctor at Rake lane has been great with us this afternoon and had even printed out info for us incase we weren't taking things in.
My mum is 58 and the Doc said from diognosis people usually live anything from 18 months to 5 years 10 years would be very optimistic 
My poor mum, my poor Daughter ( whom my mum has brought up as i was young when i had her )
My poor family full stop.
I was obviously there at a meeting this afternoon but my Daughter doesnt know how bad things are. Me and mum talked and i am going to tell her tomorrow. It is going to be one of the hardest things i have EVER done.
My OH has been great for the last few weeks and even shed a few tears when i got home ( something he doesnt do very often )
I know we have to be positive and i know there is NOTHING we can do.
They are going to get my mum home asap but i think it will still be a few weeks yet as they have to assess and adapt the house she shares with my Daughter and grandaughter. She will stay there as long as possible but i know there will be a time when she will no longer be able to stay at home 
I know this is a me post and im sorry its just good to type and get it out xxx